[its a real life story of a man who is alive but probably lost, my effort here is to keep the spirit alive.]
In 2004 a large earthquake in Indonesia shook the waters inArabian sea and created a wave front thousands of km long and hundred feet high, it was called the Tsunami. The Indian government and the state worked on relief efforts. Some rich businessmen and movie stars donated money to rebuild of what was left behind by the waves.
The family of the dead (which where mostly fishermen) were given 5 lakh rupees {converts to close to 10 thousand dollars as compensation money} This may seem a small amount for developed world but due to very high purchasing power it is quiet a sum in India.
So what happened was a poor fisherman was in the town that fateful day and his Young son close to 15 yrs was at the sea for the fishing trip. With no good warning system the tsunami struck and close to 18,000 died in India and relief efforts started. Lots of useful help came in from various countries and things got started fast. People were given the 5 lakh rupees for each dead in the family so did the fisherman receive. He spent a week or so in refugee shelter home while the waters receded and the home was built again. His efforts to find the body of the son was in wane and nothing could be done . Anybody missing for 1 week was assumed to be dead.
He still in shock was not ready to use the money on anything. Days passed by; news was filled with reports of corruption in the relief aid process, in total he was lucky to get his stipulated amount .There was a fight between the state and central government regarding the executive powers to use the relief money provided by various organisations like world bank , UN , and various governments in the world. All officials wanted to get their hands on the money the intention was purely to advertise well and spend 50% and keep the rest to pay for their personal comfort.
The fisherman was definitely not interested in all that he had bigger things to worry about besides missing his son, which was the only one he had. He had lots of plans for his son's education, family life and all but all was over for him. He was thinking of what to do with the money . Some of his friends used it to get the house built and bought vehicles and boats . A clever business man would know that his competitors had lost their boats and resources and family it was a good time to gear up and dominate the market. Most of the people around had many children and loosing one or a few was not bad and to be mean was a little good as the fittest had survived and there where lesser to feed.
One fine day about 3 weeks later the fisherman was thinking trying to find a rational reason for his sorrows and weighing his sins and good deeds trying to find the flaws he had made. He saw his son standing in from of him he was hurt , weak but there he was. He had been carried by the wave much to the north and had been treated at a small local relief camp. He had no idea that he was ever going to see his father some day . The son as expected had lost his relief money to some administrative bureaucrats and received nothing.
The family reunion was thrilling. the son got better in a few days and the family of two was complete again , normal life had started in most of the areas . The son was eager to work and started to rebuild the damaged house. They worked together to rebuild the boat which was their lively hood. The son went to his dad to to ask for the relief money so that they could get few more essentials. All their savings had finished off, for a person earning 500Rs a good fishing day it was not too difficult to imagine that the savings where not too much an amount anyway(converts to about 10 dollars).
The father was coming from the temple it was the same place where he had taken refuge during the flood times. Typically the temples in India are the highest structures and are often built on the highest hillock making it the safest refuge during floods and rains.
The answer he got from his dad was something that he shall remember for rest of his life, and is something that the corrupt administrators of the country would never understand. The fisherman had returned the money to the relief agency because his son was alive.
The story of honesty to oneself was lost in between the news about Soccer world cup , Madonna's new son and , Britney's addictions ,and Angelina's new tatoo.
Pipe dreams
The famous Quote "read between the lines" has been taken lightly and perhaps rightly as too many people have learnt to "speak" things in a very convincing way. It has led mankind to a state where he appreciates an evidence in words heard and read as more convincing than the thoughts that are felt.
The author has larger respect for the age old means of communication through the eyes. But there is a very logical reason why the former means is safer to depend on and it is mainly because the the person perceiving always has an option to blame others if things go wrong. It might not be a very good excuse if the reason was like "it seemed like he meant it " in place of "he told me that he meant it".
In the above example the person concluding and deciding has a better cushion to fall on if things go wayward of the plan. After all the key to a decision process is to avoid or minimising the trauma to be experienced if the situation ever arises for the plans ever be reevaluated.
Some reasons for the dependency on verbal and printed language shall also include the apparent lack of mental effort suffered in deriving conclusions from the them. The process though ends up extracting equal effort eventually but no one cares what is better for him after 4-5 years : the above is the reason why people don't stop smoking for cancer prevention but just might do it run a marathon next month!!
The homology expressed is very congruent think about it!!
The author has larger respect for the age old means of communication through the eyes. But there is a very logical reason why the former means is safer to depend on and it is mainly because the the person perceiving always has an option to blame others if things go wrong. It might not be a very good excuse if the reason was like "it seemed like he meant it " in place of "he told me that he meant it".
In the above example the person concluding and deciding has a better cushion to fall on if things go wayward of the plan. After all the key to a decision process is to avoid or minimising the trauma to be experienced if the situation ever arises for the plans ever be reevaluated.
Some reasons for the dependency on verbal and printed language shall also include the apparent lack of mental effort suffered in deriving conclusions from the them. The process though ends up extracting equal effort eventually but no one cares what is better for him after 4-5 years : the above is the reason why people don't stop smoking for cancer prevention but just might do it run a marathon next month!!
The homology expressed is very congruent think about it!!
Feeling Good
The happiness perceived on receiving a gift is partly the intention but mainly its the fact that the recipient most of the times knows that he is receiving something and the timing, the secrecy and misty of the process make it a pleasurable experience.
The gifting process is supposed to be beneficial to the Doner too as he too feels pleasure in anticipation of the expression and response received by the recipient. The analogy expressed to a 'Grafting' process here is very intentional.
Often i wonder the rationale for gifting stuff to people , the whole concept is elementally retarded, i believe. Main argument that i have against the trend is pretty obvious but people seem to over look and 'Do as the romans do' . like most of the actions of a person it is designed to provide happiness to either sides .The Gift = graft is supposed to have a purpose and ultimately provide happiness to the Recipient but like in medicine it should be done only when the recipient needs it .
Wishing good for and giving gifts to a person shall truly fulfill the purpose when and if it was done when the person is truly in need of external source of happiness , which shall include many occasions but the birthday , new-year or graduation.
Making a happy person even more happy is probably not anyones direct intention. [assumption being that there is nothing called more happy, mood can exist in either of the two phases and like all qualitative condition is not to scale] An organ failure is Prerequisite for a grafting procedure ,we do not intend to create a superman by shubbing in a few extra kidneys , heart or a brain for that matter (if possible someday).
On the contrary there are only a very few conditions in medicine showing analogy to the doner's prospective on the entire process and that would be in cases of polycythemia or hemochromatosis when blood donation is guided by needs and benefit to the doner too.
How about giving a gift to a person when he fails an exam or screws up in a life i think that is the best situation when it we can truly validate the intention, because after all it is always all about the intent and not the consequence.Think on it.....
The gifting process is supposed to be beneficial to the Doner too as he too feels pleasure in anticipation of the expression and response received by the recipient. The analogy expressed to a 'Grafting' process here is very intentional.
Often i wonder the rationale for gifting stuff to people , the whole concept is elementally retarded, i believe. Main argument that i have against the trend is pretty obvious but people seem to over look and 'Do as the romans do' . like most of the actions of a person it is designed to provide happiness to either sides .The Gift = graft is supposed to have a purpose and ultimately provide happiness to the Recipient but like in medicine it should be done only when the recipient needs it .
Wishing good for and giving gifts to a person shall truly fulfill the purpose when and if it was done when the person is truly in need of external source of happiness , which shall include many occasions but the birthday , new-year or graduation.
Making a happy person even more happy is probably not anyones direct intention. [assumption being that there is nothing called more happy, mood can exist in either of the two phases and like all qualitative condition is not to scale] An organ failure is Prerequisite for a grafting procedure ,we do not intend to create a superman by shubbing in a few extra kidneys , heart or a brain for that matter (if possible someday).
On the contrary there are only a very few conditions in medicine showing analogy to the doner's prospective on the entire process and that would be in cases of polycythemia or hemochromatosis when blood donation is guided by needs and benefit to the doner too.
How about giving a gift to a person when he fails an exam or screws up in a life i think that is the best situation when it we can truly validate the intention, because after all it is always all about the intent and not the consequence.Think on it.....
Things have changed
The pleasure in being dirty besides being passive action lies in being the only one.
I always believed that i was a good person before i met myself spirited ,Since then i know.
If we do not find GOD to help us we shall always have probability to replace him.
There is no use of knowing about a thing that does not help us to make a change.
Meditation is the best medication
The best way to keep winning in life , is by 'abstaining' from competing and comparing every-other time.
At any time in life a person is either Learning , Relaxing or Wasting his time.
Most of the people in this planet shall never see , read or do any thing that hasn't already been Observed , written or tried-at by someone else .
Happiness comes from getting things you never deserved (a crude way of saying lucky) on the contrary Satisfaction comes from accomplishing things that you fought for . I think life is more about deserving than accomplishing .
Doesn't matter whose pain it is; happiness is perceived in its removal . So apparently pain is a prerequisite for happiness and pleasure, Probably that's why Scorpion's say 'no pain no gain'.
If you manage to keep your mouth shut; mind , eye and ears open long enough, you shall have all the answers, even for the ones which you never asked.
A man first spends his health and time, to earn money further in life Spends all of it to buy time and health . [i could have easily replaced health with love]
When the gravity calls the answer is simple , natural , predictable & undeniable.
If I was ever happy I can be the happy again as long as I choose to remain the one I always was .
The love for someone/something is just the Absence of ' infantile stranger anxiety ' that every one retains and regresses into when he is stressed. This is the reason why people try to familiarize themselves with their environment at any/every given time. Renunciation is last stage of human maturation when he lacks any kind of regression in response to stress.
The best prediction about the way a routine incident shall take place would be just a reiteration of the way it happened the other day.
Sometimes people think, few of the times they know but most of the times people feel and predict on the basis of what they think they know.
I always believed that i was a good person before i met myself spirited ,Since then i know.
If we do not find GOD to help us we shall always have probability to replace him.
There is no use of knowing about a thing that does not help us to make a change.
Meditation is the best medication
The best way to keep winning in life , is by 'abstaining' from competing and comparing every-other time.
At any time in life a person is either Learning , Relaxing or Wasting his time.
Most of the people in this planet shall never see , read or do any thing that hasn't already been Observed , written or tried-at by someone else .
Happiness comes from getting things you never deserved (a crude way of saying lucky) on the contrary Satisfaction comes from accomplishing things that you fought for . I think life is more about deserving than accomplishing .
Doesn't matter whose pain it is; happiness is perceived in its removal . So apparently pain is a prerequisite for happiness and pleasure, Probably that's why Scorpion's say 'no pain no gain'.
If you manage to keep your mouth shut; mind , eye and ears open long enough, you shall have all the answers, even for the ones which you never asked.
A man first spends his health and time, to earn money further in life Spends all of it to buy time and health . [i could have easily replaced health with love]
When the gravity calls the answer is simple , natural , predictable & undeniable.
If I was ever happy I can be the happy again as long as I choose to remain the one I always was .
The love for someone/something is just the Absence of ' infantile stranger anxiety ' that every one retains and regresses into when he is stressed. This is the reason why people try to familiarize themselves with their environment at any/every given time. Renunciation is last stage of human maturation when he lacks any kind of regression in response to stress.
The best prediction about the way a routine incident shall take place would be just a reiteration of the way it happened the other day.
Sometimes people think, few of the times they know but most of the times people feel and predict on the basis of what they think they know.
I can feel it ....calling In the air tonight
Alcohol is believed to be a depressant that decreases mental activity and in the process produces euphoria in between the large spectrum of actions; But i , my brother and probably some other religious drinkers share the following opinion.
A normal sober person is at any time fully conscious of his environment and space in which his body lies , the perception and responce to these are a continuous process and always tend to keep a person compitent and effectively effective.
Alcohol has an ability to cause blunting of these perceptions first and hence temporarily causing an increasingly loosened feeling and the person starts concentrating on things that he has been over looking all this time and starts enjoying a thing as silly as just watching the world from the window. It is one of the reasons why people enjoy music much more when they are drunk . This has a very special effect on human psychology that can be compared in homology to effect of Chemotherapy on malignancies such that the fastest dividing cells are affected first and rest last. A Cigarette can provide a similar effect in a shorter span of time and also shorter lasting .
I think the possible reason of increasing consumption of both is because people are being forced to live in a not self satisfying manner....the people have to pretend somebody all day , smoke every 2 hrs to keep doing it good and drink in the evenings to spend sometime with anyone other than the one they fake to be all day...........
A normal sober person is at any time fully conscious of his environment and space in which his body lies , the perception and responce to these are a continuous process and always tend to keep a person compitent and effectively effective.
Alcohol has an ability to cause blunting of these perceptions first and hence temporarily causing an increasingly loosened feeling and the person starts concentrating on things that he has been over looking all this time and starts enjoying a thing as silly as just watching the world from the window. It is one of the reasons why people enjoy music much more when they are drunk . This has a very special effect on human psychology that can be compared in homology to effect of Chemotherapy on malignancies such that the fastest dividing cells are affected first and rest last. A Cigarette can provide a similar effect in a shorter span of time and also shorter lasting .
I think the possible reason of increasing consumption of both is because people are being forced to live in a not self satisfying manner....the people have to pretend somebody all day , smoke every 2 hrs to keep doing it good and drink in the evenings to spend sometime with anyone other than the one they fake to be all day...........
"Wait" a minute girl !!
My limited experience and and non verbal discussion with society has led to some knowledge that leads to only one logical conclusion which is ,
Women never love men they only have a list of few whom they trust.
the reasoning is probably simple and genetic in nature.
All human experiences are an exaggeration and sophistication of a habit found in Lower animals and so is love Females always pick the best possible of the available males [both 'availability' and 'best' features are critically important].
All human experiences are an exaggeration and sophistication of a habit found in Lower animals and so is love Females always pick the best possible of the available males [both 'availability' and 'best' features are critically important].
Women like to be in a state of freedom within a state of constant comfortable surrounding provided by the male and guarded by him. The Male's role in society is only that and shall always be a refined form of the one seen in lower animals.
A males have a feeling of belonging, territory, ownership and have well defined relationships with his friends and foes to defend his territory.
women on the contrary utilise males for most of the above .
'Belonging to a state in society' shall evolve to the feeling of love in later mammals.
Ownership , and territory are the features that are classical qualities of a male that supposedly females look for and take refuge in . This might not be money in all times but just a social ownership and social territory in many situations.
The choice in males is lesser well defined and is more obscure like love.
I don't mean to say that women don't love men but they admire other qualities more deeply and love of course helps them to keep the definition right.
Over reliance on love in a relationship is a scary thought for women and probably the most sought for in men.
Love in theory has no needs no reasoning like between mother and son and the one seen between siblings, none has to to do with reasoning. Its classical definition is devoid of all the criterion followed by the extra X population. The unexplainability of love is the one that explains it the most. The undefinability is the best adjective it can have.
Love in theory has no needs no reasoning like between mother and son and the one seen between siblings, none has to to do with reasoning. Its classical definition is devoid of all the criterion followed by the extra X population. The unexplainability of love is the one that explains it the most. The undefinability is the best adjective it can have.
I think a woman only loves her children and and till the time she gets any she has her family to fill in. the man's place comes only when the instincts get obscure.
A person be it male or female can have an opinion about an issue that can range any where on the spectrum with the limits from totally masculine to feminine. Thus i think there is no true female or male mind. There only are feminine and masculine opinion to a situation and these are the qualities that make people different from each other; i.e. a person can have feminine opinion on love and masculine opinion on clothing and so on.
[i think the above argument explains 85-95% of individuals]
What if god was one of us
The 'Popular Gods' are the really important constituents of the human development and as it is for now they are very much here to stay , pretty much like no matter how many years pass by people shall keep having Elvis weekends , michael jackson fan clubs.
The thing here is that there is one thing called the godliness and a seemingly very similar but much more customer friendly "popular god". He too like Britney spears, gathers a very large number of listeners and the seats fill up faster than they open up , people are always saying something about him it can be with or against and he is always and almost daily heard /read and also occasionally smelled about too; In total a very well advertised entity.
This person is probably as confused as the rest of us as to the realities but has a vey handy resourses, but i think B.Spears also most often listens to Pink floyed or any real classical instrumental stuff like operas, violen and flute solos.
What i wish to say here is not that Mrs. Spears is irrelevent in her role but she is just a stage in real understanding of music which people get with time. Like religion every knows what is right but the difference and the transation between Knowing and realising of the truth is gradual process where everyone takes his own sweet time. It is pretty sure part of destiny like death and so called aging. People don't really get it untill they are already there and some of us make the trip faster or slower than others.
The thing here is that there is one thing called the godliness and a seemingly very similar but much more customer friendly "popular god". He too like Britney spears, gathers a very large number of listeners and the seats fill up faster than they open up , people are always saying something about him it can be with or against and he is always and almost daily heard /read and also occasionally smelled about too; In total a very well advertised entity.
This person is probably as confused as the rest of us as to the realities but has a vey handy resourses, but i think B.Spears also most often listens to Pink floyed or any real classical instrumental stuff like operas, violen and flute solos.
What i wish to say here is not that Mrs. Spears is irrelevent in her role but she is just a stage in real understanding of music which people get with time. Like religion every knows what is right but the difference and the transation between Knowing and realising of the truth is gradual process where everyone takes his own sweet time. It is pretty sure part of destiny like death and so called aging. People don't really get it untill they are already there and some of us make the trip faster or slower than others.
Circle only has one 'Side'
I always believed that if you are being" deprived of something that you have been longing for " one tends to develop extreme feeling about it many a times goes through the following stages..
DENIAL-
A pretentious stage of not loosing much and a sort of satisfaction with the things in hand and leads to preoccupation with the familiar and accessible rather than the 'one in the bush'.
CURIOSITY-
It tends to creep in every other time in the denial and probably the fight continues for long till the things loose the entropy and choose to settle in one side more often than the other, i would predict that the equilibrium kind of a state is reached that is still susceptible to fate and time.
I think the biggest curiosity is the one of happiness, at least initially. It is mainly provided by social reinforcement and the counter current is a loop that does persist in only in the aspects where the curiosities are answered.
IMPROVISATION-
This develops to a stage of strengthening the DENIAL aspect of the personality and curbs the curiosity, i think it is some time during this that people develop habits and hobbies and passions. These things are hard to develop if the person is more focused on reward .
Acceptance-
The person can end up most of the times with complete lack of commitment to urge for the hidden and apparently forbidden . The subject tends to loose all interest in it and ultimately becomes indifferent to the target , any yielding provided thus forth on the deprivation part shall no way incite a possible level of enthusiasm as it could have been.
This pathogenesis is followed by almost all human urges including the one for money , hence the old statement of "people who do not respect money are the ones who do not have any" can be true in a indirect sense.
DENIAL-
A pretentious stage of not loosing much and a sort of satisfaction with the things in hand and leads to preoccupation with the familiar and accessible rather than the 'one in the bush'.
CURIOSITY-
It tends to creep in every other time in the denial and probably the fight continues for long till the things loose the entropy and choose to settle in one side more often than the other, i would predict that the equilibrium kind of a state is reached that is still susceptible to fate and time.
I think the biggest curiosity is the one of happiness, at least initially. It is mainly provided by social reinforcement and the counter current is a loop that does persist in only in the aspects where the curiosities are answered.
IMPROVISATION-
This develops to a stage of strengthening the DENIAL aspect of the personality and curbs the curiosity, i think it is some time during this that people develop habits and hobbies and passions. These things are hard to develop if the person is more focused on reward .
Acceptance-
The person can end up most of the times with complete lack of commitment to urge for the hidden and apparently forbidden . The subject tends to loose all interest in it and ultimately becomes indifferent to the target , any yielding provided thus forth on the deprivation part shall no way incite a possible level of enthusiasm as it could have been.
This pathogenesis is followed by almost all human urges including the one for money , hence the old statement of "people who do not respect money are the ones who do not have any" can be true in a indirect sense.
Estranged..
Instrumental music is a Special mode of expression and most people respect it even without realizing that they might actually be loving it, Starting off with every ones favorite Solo's of Slash, Ted Neugent , jimmy page, Steve Vai, Richie blackmore or the long stretches in Pink Floyd and Dire straits songs . I never really appreciated what 'new age' music was like until i spent some time with the exclusive radio on Shoutcast, now i think i can easily spend a really very large part of my day listening to it.
For the people who don't understand instrumental music , i think it is mainly due to dependence on directions ....it is a crooked way to indicate the need for words . It has always been a indicated that people can understand much from music as is . If looked into closely i think for people who do not like instrumental music it is mainly due to a learned skill of being better at appreciating somethings that are said rather than the ones implied. Not to stress on the fact that even the better of wordy songs are appreciated for the message they delivered between the lines.(when i say 'wordy' i refer to those with significant literary content , not Rap songs)
I would like to use the term 'under influence' as i think the truly great music has the ability to effect the affect in a very precise and individual way such that the Psyche of a person is elevated beside and beyond the limits of vocally directed literary specimen. It is very easy to appreciate that the lyrics when at full throttle don't direct the listener in any specific direction and to be frank are blurry and confusingly obscure.Like a good story the the result and conclusions are never verbally delineated .
I think 'wordy' songs have an ability to provide the listener with a sense of security ;a state of being in control of the things happening or being said/shown in the video. There the object of focus is defined by the language and voice of the singer ; on the contrary, instrumental music provides the listener with a sense of freedom as to decide the meaning of the song for himself, most of the time the listener at the end stops deciding the meaning and enjoys the state of freedom and thoughtlessness. Most really great songs carry phenotypes from both the categories. Regarding the listener I think the people who like the so called wordy songs are mainly interested in watching it and mostly imagine acting or singing to it , Fans of instrumental music tend to prefer listening rather watching and more often than not imagine playing and dancing to the tunes.
[I can define a coherent relationship between idol worship and the contrary where the idol helps the Deity and provides a visual object to direct attention on].
Turn off the light
A strength of a person always parallels and at instances also defines his weaknesses ; seriously , I am not trying to confuse you here but the thing is pretty apparent if you read through.
The strength is nothing until the beholder recognizes its presence and significance , and as soon as this happens an urge to rely and reuse the ability creates a lacunae in the personality . This transformation into a weakness has been repeatedly shown in many wars in the history ; when someone else realizes its presence and decides to test a different aspect of the package.
Technically in common man's life where war and conspiracies are not that common the 'realization' of the strength is not an limiting factor. Probability takes care of that and only the fittest survives the newer rules in the newer conditions. The change in conditions is a continuous and a definite process that shall always guide the path all the way and given the number of people in the planet there shall always be someone with a better ability to do something that you have been guarding all the time.
This brings us back to the age old statement by Newton "everything that goes up must come down" and its not because it looses its energy , but it is mainly because the energy in a body is best suited for initiating a process in a definite direction from the native state ; It never promises to keep the body that way in the transformed state and the new condition thus created chooses a new package fittest for it.
For men a very parallel analogy can be drawn towards things like career and social life.
The strength is nothing until the beholder recognizes its presence and significance , and as soon as this happens an urge to rely and reuse the ability creates a lacunae in the personality . This transformation into a weakness has been repeatedly shown in many wars in the history ; when someone else realizes its presence and decides to test a different aspect of the package.
Technically in common man's life where war and conspiracies are not that common the 'realization' of the strength is not an limiting factor. Probability takes care of that and only the fittest survives the newer rules in the newer conditions. The change in conditions is a continuous and a definite process that shall always guide the path all the way and given the number of people in the planet there shall always be someone with a better ability to do something that you have been guarding all the time.
This brings us back to the age old statement by Newton "everything that goes up must come down" and its not because it looses its energy , but it is mainly because the energy in a body is best suited for initiating a process in a definite direction from the native state ; It never promises to keep the body that way in the transformed state and the new condition thus created chooses a new package fittest for it.
For men a very parallel analogy can be drawn towards things like career and social life.
The Hallucination called 'Happiness'
I was at the airport that day to receive an old friend, the flight Air India was supposed to arrive at 4:25 but my luck was as screwed up as the weather outside.
I was left with 3 hrs to kill , so I walked around the airport, checked out the washroom I had heard so much about, I also decided a few ‘to do’ things for next week. A lot has happened in past few months that is the first time for me so i think it is best to face them head-on; This is a new thing I have started ; i.e. to make short plans. The previous advise by mom and dad did not seem to work out well in this time .They always advised to think where you wish to reach after 10-15 yrs and that definition for me was a learned scientist, teacher and a master of his subject and all the studious crap, I seemed to have over looked the thing about the weird neighborhoods i had to walk through on the way. Any way I am thinking better now and probably shall not make similar mistakes again.
I thought about some en-vogue things in life, some of which i never thought of in college.it probably comes with the solitude in life and also is guided by the other major happenings in the life of late. Probably never thought of money before this and hence probably got left behind in the race to independence . I think every one thinks about this stuff some day though seemingly exerting initially i think it imbibes into reflexes and the personality gradually .
Well still 2 hrs to go so I decide to go ahead and get a front pillar at the arrival at the O’Hare terminal 5. It is always busy here, I had heard so I did not want to blow it all away once I had waited this long. Besides it was nice to see the flood of happiness on the passengers faces and their relatives at the terminal meeting hall. If watched keenly one could observe the exact changes in the expressions , from a mission accomplished at the luggage collection , to finding the exit , the search mode with mixture of eagerness, hope and restlessness all along with the dark light adjustment causing a little frowning.
There are so many things you can pick up from the faces if you watch closely. I always knew but just seemed to realize that the facial representation on the homunculus was probably meant for a reason and men always tend to find alternatives to the real mode of expression the one which took millions of years to develop through exhaustive selection and survival , it can never ever be taken over by a speech , an essay or a novel for that matter.
Their steps would speed in the last leg of the tunnel and then the slowdown to figure out the 'where and who' and then the burst of emotions , smiles , tears and screaming in case of a pair of Spanish sisters. This seemed to be a great entertainment. I seemed to enjoy and tried to catch as many transitions in expressions as the passengers just kept coming and realized the reason why it was one of the busiest airports in the planet.
I then fixed on one phenotypically Indian middle aged woman , she had a moderate amount of baggage, she too was scanning with a reasonable speed and it seemed she was confident about presence of someone to receive her , my impression from the past 2 hr's experience was that the person would be her son , She waited at the exit gate for some time . It seemed to take some time I thought probably because of the rush and the crowd , (dam!! the population explosion) she was pushed to the side due to the on coming passengers . She waited for about ten minutes; I could easily observe that even after 10 Min's of wait she was very eagerly searching, she probably was very confident that the person would be in the crowed somewhere.
She was not willing to accept the fact that that probably no-one was coming. I was wondering what all must have been going through her mind, probably she must be visualizing her son who had always been immature, childish and UN-organized quite likely had been caught up in traffic or she must have considered the possibility of him being lost or hung up somewhere or probably he must have over slept as he had the problem of waking up to alarms, he always needed his mom to wake him up before exams.
She must have pictured how her first meeting would go with her son probably all throughout the 16 hr flight from India. She might have thought of words to say, things to ask, the hugging and the kissing but that had to wait now. She probably had some gifts for the grand kids as the hand bag seemed unnecessarily large she must have got some sweets for the grand children, their favorites specially bought from the most expensive and clean store in Delhi, She could have been expecting the little grand sons to come along with her son and daughter in law.
The rush and the Chaos had pushed her to the corner of the hall , she seemed well clothed and non American , she had started realizing that the plan had flawed somewhere, She slowly pushed the trolley to the desk in space between the arrival gate A and B , to the so called meeting point where sat an agent .She went ahead and asked the person for something I thought first she must have asked to announce the name or something but no she started walking towards the pay phone.It was probably a good plan that the son might have advised. She surprisingly had a few coins I think she was well organized but she seemed scared now. Already she had a hard time with the agent, asking for the pay phone I could imagine here asking in crude-clumsy English along with the universally understood hand gestures, probably the agent must be used to such questions as he was prompt. She dialed the number which she had carefully noted in the reasonably big black pocket diary which she fished from depths of her large hand bag.
She has a short conversation and seemed satisfied I wished to see the look on her face when she heard the voice from the other side but I missed that as I was few meters behind her. She seemed content and headed off to the wash room and came back soon after grooming herself. She placed herself at the prime seat where she could see every one of the people coming to receive the passengers she sat confidently and reorganized herself and her hair. I would suppose she was hoping to make a good and strong impression on the in-laws. Her fear was visible but not for display to a casual eye the view was one I could not put in words. I just wondered do we always have to keep proving ourselves to people. I could not follow her up any further as they just announced for the arrival of the flight of my primary interest and I had to focus on the gate again.
Personally speaking I decided something that day , and it was not something I could jot down hence I had to write this much but to conclude I think I might want to sacrifice any amount of ambitions in my life to feel that pleasure that the people experience at the meeting hall at airport arrivals. I personally had never seen any thing more overwhelming than in those two hrs.I think if we are sad seeing happy people really helps . That also explains the reason why the comedy shows on TV are very widely followed.
This post is a combination of imagination and a real life incident, dedicated to all the mothers .
I was left with 3 hrs to kill , so I walked around the airport, checked out the washroom I had heard so much about, I also decided a few ‘to do’ things for next week. A lot has happened in past few months that is the first time for me so i think it is best to face them head-on; This is a new thing I have started ; i.e. to make short plans. The previous advise by mom and dad did not seem to work out well in this time .They always advised to think where you wish to reach after 10-15 yrs and that definition for me was a learned scientist, teacher and a master of his subject and all the studious crap, I seemed to have over looked the thing about the weird neighborhoods i had to walk through on the way. Any way I am thinking better now and probably shall not make similar mistakes again.
I thought about some en-vogue things in life, some of which i never thought of in college.it probably comes with the solitude in life and also is guided by the other major happenings in the life of late. Probably never thought of money before this and hence probably got left behind in the race to independence . I think every one thinks about this stuff some day though seemingly exerting initially i think it imbibes into reflexes and the personality gradually .
Well still 2 hrs to go so I decide to go ahead and get a front pillar at the arrival at the O’Hare terminal 5. It is always busy here, I had heard so I did not want to blow it all away once I had waited this long. Besides it was nice to see the flood of happiness on the passengers faces and their relatives at the terminal meeting hall. If watched keenly one could observe the exact changes in the expressions , from a mission accomplished at the luggage collection , to finding the exit , the search mode with mixture of eagerness, hope and restlessness all along with the dark light adjustment causing a little frowning.
There are so many things you can pick up from the faces if you watch closely. I always knew but just seemed to realize that the facial representation on the homunculus was probably meant for a reason and men always tend to find alternatives to the real mode of expression the one which took millions of years to develop through exhaustive selection and survival , it can never ever be taken over by a speech , an essay or a novel for that matter.
Their steps would speed in the last leg of the tunnel and then the slowdown to figure out the 'where and who' and then the burst of emotions , smiles , tears and screaming in case of a pair of Spanish sisters. This seemed to be a great entertainment. I seemed to enjoy and tried to catch as many transitions in expressions as the passengers just kept coming and realized the reason why it was one of the busiest airports in the planet.
I then fixed on one phenotypically Indian middle aged woman , she had a moderate amount of baggage, she too was scanning with a reasonable speed and it seemed she was confident about presence of someone to receive her , my impression from the past 2 hr's experience was that the person would be her son , She waited at the exit gate for some time . It seemed to take some time I thought probably because of the rush and the crowd , (dam!! the population explosion) she was pushed to the side due to the on coming passengers . She waited for about ten minutes; I could easily observe that even after 10 Min's of wait she was very eagerly searching, she probably was very confident that the person would be in the crowed somewhere.
She was not willing to accept the fact that that probably no-one was coming. I was wondering what all must have been going through her mind, probably she must be visualizing her son who had always been immature, childish and UN-organized quite likely had been caught up in traffic or she must have considered the possibility of him being lost or hung up somewhere or probably he must have over slept as he had the problem of waking up to alarms, he always needed his mom to wake him up before exams.
She must have pictured how her first meeting would go with her son probably all throughout the 16 hr flight from India. She might have thought of words to say, things to ask, the hugging and the kissing but that had to wait now. She probably had some gifts for the grand kids as the hand bag seemed unnecessarily large she must have got some sweets for the grand children, their favorites specially bought from the most expensive and clean store in Delhi, She could have been expecting the little grand sons to come along with her son and daughter in law.
The rush and the Chaos had pushed her to the corner of the hall , she seemed well clothed and non American , she had started realizing that the plan had flawed somewhere, She slowly pushed the trolley to the desk in space between the arrival gate A and B , to the so called meeting point where sat an agent .She went ahead and asked the person for something I thought first she must have asked to announce the name or something but no she started walking towards the pay phone.It was probably a good plan that the son might have advised. She surprisingly had a few coins I think she was well organized but she seemed scared now. Already she had a hard time with the agent, asking for the pay phone I could imagine here asking in crude-clumsy English along with the universally understood hand gestures, probably the agent must be used to such questions as he was prompt. She dialed the number which she had carefully noted in the reasonably big black pocket diary which she fished from depths of her large hand bag.
She has a short conversation and seemed satisfied I wished to see the look on her face when she heard the voice from the other side but I missed that as I was few meters behind her. She seemed content and headed off to the wash room and came back soon after grooming herself. She placed herself at the prime seat where she could see every one of the people coming to receive the passengers she sat confidently and reorganized herself and her hair. I would suppose she was hoping to make a good and strong impression on the in-laws. Her fear was visible but not for display to a casual eye the view was one I could not put in words. I just wondered do we always have to keep proving ourselves to people. I could not follow her up any further as they just announced for the arrival of the flight of my primary interest and I had to focus on the gate again.
Personally speaking I decided something that day , and it was not something I could jot down hence I had to write this much but to conclude I think I might want to sacrifice any amount of ambitions in my life to feel that pleasure that the people experience at the meeting hall at airport arrivals. I personally had never seen any thing more overwhelming than in those two hrs.I think if we are sad seeing happy people really helps . That also explains the reason why the comedy shows on TV are very widely followed.
This post is a combination of imagination and a real life incident, dedicated to all the mothers .
Little less conversation ... little more action ,Please!!
We can be pretty sure that science grew in large shifts till the late 20th century but as the things should have grown exponentially later; i think people are very close to loosing the inertia. The culprit here is two mainly One shall include the handy methods of communication and Excess if unnecessary information.
Reason A
For an instant close your eyes and imagine a world where there would be one phone in the house only for local calls in Chicago and each call shall cost a dollar for 3 mins or so . do you think it would be good for you or bad... well it was same thing 20-30 yrs ago and the science has not grown beyond that stage much. The real reason here is like a child human mind has urges or ideas which are supposed to be spent time with and not spread as soon as they originate. The current method can help grow the library of science fiction not science.
25 yrs ago people spent 2-3 weeks thinking and then wrote a letter over a period of days perhaps longer and the idea was shared in a slower but apparently more effective manner. Today a person calls a number at first thought and mostly does the thinking if any after calling
Reason A
For an instant close your eyes and imagine a world where there would be one phone in the house only for local calls in Chicago and each call shall cost a dollar for 3 mins or so . do you think it would be good for you or bad... well it was same thing 20-30 yrs ago and the science has not grown beyond that stage much. The real reason here is like a child human mind has urges or ideas which are supposed to be spent time with and not spread as soon as they originate. The current method can help grow the library of science fiction not science.
25 yrs ago people spent 2-3 weeks thinking and then wrote a letter over a period of days perhaps longer and the idea was shared in a slower but apparently more effective manner. Today a person calls a number at first thought and mostly does the thinking if any after calling
I think if people spend more time thinking before speaking out stuff with the amount of available resources things can change faster and for the better
"People can never think but a person can"
Reason B
No matter how much one might argue i seriously doubt what i shall do with a 24-7-52 news channel ; i think i was much aware when i watched news ones a day with dinner .
I personally do not want to know what the people of Pakistan think about their new ruler or what is name of the place where Elvis had his hair cut ; i think i like both Elvis and Pakistan's for the music.
If you don't develop faith in god by age of 15-20 despite all influences of your parents, i don't think any TV channel can change it much after that. I was much better entertained when i used to see a movie once on a special day with my dear ones in a theater and not on HBO.
People are told more about daily routine, hobbies , habits and possessions of Pamella Anderson than that of Newton and Einstein.. what elce do you think the people will run after .
Reason B
No matter how much one might argue i seriously doubt what i shall do with a 24-7-52 news channel ; i think i was much aware when i watched news ones a day with dinner .
I personally do not want to know what the people of Pakistan think about their new ruler or what is name of the place where Elvis had his hair cut ; i think i like both Elvis and Pakistan's for the music.
If you don't develop faith in god by age of 15-20 despite all influences of your parents, i don't think any TV channel can change it much after that. I was much better entertained when i used to see a movie once on a special day with my dear ones in a theater and not on HBO.
People are told more about daily routine, hobbies , habits and possessions of Pamella Anderson than that of Newton and Einstein.. what elce do you think the people will run after .
Hey Hey, My My...
This is a bunch of stuff i have recognized about the nishant, courtesy all the times i spent with him
- I am a music addict and can't live for long without it , and unfortunately it is the only thing i know besides medical science.
- I don't like people , I don't like to know people and i don't like it when somebody tries to analyze me. I think mankind has an uncanning habit of analysing others and this habit needs revision.
- Every second person in my friends/family circle thinks that i am Crazy ; the other half have stopped thinking about it .The consolation here is that i too share reciprocal thought towards them.
- I am not programmed well to initiate a conversation and If i am talking to you i am just trying to be nice which i cant do for long.
- The main reason why i am alive is because i am not sure and sick enough to kill myself the day i reach that stage , i shall be 'undone'
- I am sick in the deepest meaning of it, not that i am proud of it writing it all down here but i don't like repeating my point of view to everyone but i do like making life of people easy by helping them, knowing me shall by no means provide you with social comfort of any type so i am of no use to most of you its a kind of psychiatric handicap which is too much a luggage for me to carry. Sorry cant help you for long even if i tried .
- The so called simple life as people live is actually more complicated than the one i believe in..formality and dependence on verbal expression is a burden to me which i carry with one and the only hope that one day...... ill shake it all off , and as it is for now i think that social load shall not last for more than few years .
- I have to really strain myself to fit into the world which has been unnecessarily made too complicated i hate money and every one who loves it .
- I like sports and respect the strength of human mind and body but unlike many i rather play than watch...
- I am a little masochistic in deeper sense of the term and pain is a essential part of life for me.. my argument here is to appreciate what nature created and not what man did .
- I hate politics and business and people talking about people .
- I am not good at talking and if it was to my convenience i might spend very large part of my life without it.
- I believe in love and friendship and if it was up to my choice i would spend rest of my life with my dear friends and family earning little or nothing ..
- I think life is to be spent gathering and spreading knowledge...
Its not that i don't believe in god but trust me i know he does not exist and every thing is guided by logic and probability... we just have to be smart enough to see it . - I believe in science and fell that the perfect world should have all resources focused on research and development and the society should have two people One who do research and other who help others do it .
- I believe in the survival of the fittest and the evolutionary selection .. hence i despise the concept of medicine.. this thing that we do is also against the law of the nature ... as much as is cloning and euthanasia .
Come as you are..
I feel somehow any great movie always tends to depict a thought and often ends up with proposal of a altered ideation , or restoration in faith in already lesser appreciated aspect of human life , We all tend to be silent observers and most often leave the thought to an aspect of entertainment and continue with our miserable life's as if it where the best thing to happen to us.
Here i wish to write the idea of the hero known as John Rambo, one very special aspect of his heroism in all the parts of the series is that he is always a hero for himself and his idea of duty/right ratio is very different because it's never directed to earn respect of his family or a female .
He is never shown as the judge of right and wrong . He hates his work but he does it because he is good at it and just responds to the way world shape's up around him .This ability to do what we are born , brought up and trained for(by people and world) ; is something that we all should be doing , but we go ahead and do things that our kins and family appreciate hoping that they might feel better if not greater of us.
One wise man once told - men do not like 'cars', they buy them because they believe that women like them . I think this rule applies to almost all the things in life where men keep doing things that are appreciated by many others and also himself indirectly. It would be really amazing to see how fast science progresses if every boy was taught and hard wired with the thought that women love Intelligence and Scientific expertise.
The above argument probably explains the evolutionary survival of human beings due to a physiological tendency to do good for every person (Pets are good company to those who want to offer less in return for the companionship) in vicinity......this my friend is probably the core of all religions and expensive preachers.
Thus the core drive of a human is not in conquering but in being seen /appreciated and acknowledged while and after he was conquering. This obstacle if divided between all humans a is surely product of either Id or Superego and the rest of the life is spent in reaching for it as completely and as frequently as possible.
I think the idea of sex is mainly created to keep the minds of 'lesser mortals' busy from destroying others by their unwanted and non-reverent opinion . Their Id keeps them busy enough not to interfere with the time and opportunities that are meant for utilization of the others who try to create and explain rather than lay back and enjoy the show .
Here i wish to write the idea of the hero known as John Rambo, one very special aspect of his heroism in all the parts of the series is that he is always a hero for himself and his idea of duty/right ratio is very different because it's never directed to earn respect of his family or a female .
He is never shown as the judge of right and wrong . He hates his work but he does it because he is good at it and just responds to the way world shape's up around him .This ability to do what we are born , brought up and trained for(by people and world) ; is something that we all should be doing , but we go ahead and do things that our kins and family appreciate hoping that they might feel better if not greater of us.
One wise man once told - men do not like 'cars', they buy them because they believe that women like them . I think this rule applies to almost all the things in life where men keep doing things that are appreciated by many others and also himself indirectly. It would be really amazing to see how fast science progresses if every boy was taught and hard wired with the thought that women love Intelligence and Scientific expertise.
The above argument probably explains the evolutionary survival of human beings due to a physiological tendency to do good for every person (Pets are good company to those who want to offer less in return for the companionship) in vicinity......this my friend is probably the core of all religions and expensive preachers.
Thus the core drive of a human is not in conquering but in being seen /appreciated and acknowledged while and after he was conquering. This obstacle if divided between all humans a is surely product of either Id or Superego and the rest of the life is spent in reaching for it as completely and as frequently as possible.
I think the idea of sex is mainly created to keep the minds of 'lesser mortals' busy from destroying others by their unwanted and non-reverent opinion . Their Id keeps them busy enough not to interfere with the time and opportunities that are meant for utilization of the others who try to create and explain rather than lay back and enjoy the show .
Hate me today..
There are far too many songs propagating the spirit of "being yourself" but if looked into it closely it is technically almost impossible to know what we really want mainly because any decision shall be biased by our past and present , there are a bunch of things that we can do but choosing in between them is the entire purpose of life .
If looked into closely occupation is not what one aims for but a something deeper , i can draw them down to a Mentally active / passive work , and another Physically active / passive and a limited number of things in between . Most often a person chooses on from each departments of life stated above. The jobs that one ends up with is more of luck, fate and destiny as believers might call it.
I do believe that any person develops passion to a aim or a type of work mainly is guided by the glamor of the job which subconsciously he believes that every one else shall appreciate , the every one else here shall be the people of the close kins and family.
The point where the subconscious brain dictates actions to the conscious actions is very undefined but a definite accepted truth. It is worth clarifying that intimacy is not what a person receives from another person but is something that he expects from everyone , the people who fulfill the criterion shall be included in the list of friends and others shall be excluded.
On many cases the urge to achieve a ambition comes from the revolting attitude and the person does the most unacceptable thing with in his practical capacity. This factor can be a little confusing if the person does not have a hate relationship or a very intimate friendships or relationships in the family.In this case the person shall not have any thing to run from so unfortunately he keeps running from everything that seems to be commonly practiced, and ultimately chooses the thing that no one is after.
'The things that no one is after' shall be nothing but shall definitely have a direction of outlook and his decision shall be basically different even when he finds some one with similar ambition. This person shall finally lie in a no mans land where no one stands not because he could not find the final address but because probably he wanted to be different from every one.
This person shall keep running from any intimacy too as he now probably believes that close relationships shall make him like every one else . He might go ahead and indulge in all the things that he sees no one in his kinship doing.
I wish to propose that a person needs something to hate as much as something to love , his hate for someone/thing shall ultimately guide to a gratifying destination .I think it is actually the hate of being without someone/thing as the real feeling; which is optimistically called love.
If looked into closely occupation is not what one aims for but a something deeper , i can draw them down to a Mentally active / passive work , and another Physically active / passive and a limited number of things in between . Most often a person chooses on from each departments of life stated above. The jobs that one ends up with is more of luck, fate and destiny as believers might call it.
I do believe that any person develops passion to a aim or a type of work mainly is guided by the glamor of the job which subconsciously he believes that every one else shall appreciate , the every one else here shall be the people of the close kins and family.
The point where the subconscious brain dictates actions to the conscious actions is very undefined but a definite accepted truth. It is worth clarifying that intimacy is not what a person receives from another person but is something that he expects from everyone , the people who fulfill the criterion shall be included in the list of friends and others shall be excluded.
On many cases the urge to achieve a ambition comes from the revolting attitude and the person does the most unacceptable thing with in his practical capacity. This factor can be a little confusing if the person does not have a hate relationship or a very intimate friendships or relationships in the family.In this case the person shall not have any thing to run from so unfortunately he keeps running from everything that seems to be commonly practiced, and ultimately chooses the thing that no one is after.
'The things that no one is after' shall be nothing but shall definitely have a direction of outlook and his decision shall be basically different even when he finds some one with similar ambition. This person shall finally lie in a no mans land where no one stands not because he could not find the final address but because probably he wanted to be different from every one.
This person shall keep running from any intimacy too as he now probably believes that close relationships shall make him like every one else . He might go ahead and indulge in all the things that he sees no one in his kinship doing.
I wish to propose that a person needs something to hate as much as something to love , his hate for someone/thing shall ultimately guide to a gratifying destination .I think it is actually the hate of being without someone/thing as the real feeling; which is optimistically called love.
Do you know what i mean !!!
Well people democracy is propagated in most of the countries as it is mathematically and logically the best bet for a safe and healthy social life , in this blog i wish to write things i would change if i where to be elected for the position of "GOD"
0- I would work towards a united earth by eliminating the other gods and creating a unified law and order system , my people believe in freedom and independence and i shall abide by it , i shall also be more visible so that people do not loose hope as often as they normally do.
1- I would first of all create the ability in people to see other people's thoughts directly and option of speaking shall also be there but with main intention of being part of music and news.
2- I would add up an option in the brain "an ability to switch off the hearing" or at least lessen the volume on will ,this shall help a person to listen to himself rather than respond to people's comments.I believe if a person is left on his own without any external influence he shall always do better morally.
3-i would stop doing miracles like my predecessors and clearly portray the idea of "help yourself"
0- I would work towards a united earth by eliminating the other gods and creating a unified law and order system , my people believe in freedom and independence and i shall abide by it , i shall also be more visible so that people do not loose hope as often as they normally do.
1- I would first of all create the ability in people to see other people's thoughts directly and option of speaking shall also be there but with main intention of being part of music and news.
2- I would add up an option in the brain "an ability to switch off the hearing" or at least lessen the volume on will ,this shall help a person to listen to himself rather than respond to people's comments.I believe if a person is left on his own without any external influence he shall always do better morally.
3-i would stop doing miracles like my predecessors and clearly portray the idea of "help yourself"
Have you ever seen the rain...
I haven't counted but i do remember some 15 or so new years and birthdays and finally i am sure that..
-The "New year " is not as new as it sounds
-No number of well wishes for "happy new year/birthday" are sufficient in generating or contributing to the cumulative amount of happiness in the forth coming year.
Assuming you are a believer of love and the presence of a soul mate , mathematicians can easily prove that the possibility of meeting the one shall keep increasing as the time progresses and shall add up to approximately one just seconds before you die.
(assuming that she is still alive then)
If one spends time long enough pretending to be like someone or something he shall eventually transform onto it inevitably, the change starts by choice and ends by chance.
Technically we always live on an island it just depends on the distance we are from the sea.
If God really wanted to rule he should have created more of the dumber people, but he did not. Its kind of like hiring Schumacher as your cab driver, you can instruct it a million times in his biblical manual but his patience shall snap some day .
At any given time one can talk about a 'person' , an 'incident' or an 'idea'. Arranged in increasing order of reverence and decreasing order if incidence.
The perfection created by more than a million years of evolution can not be destroyed by anything other than the thing itself.
The current social scale of a person's fame is calculated to be proportional to the number of people's life you can disrupt after your 'death' and before 'last rights'.
(counting only the people who have no interest in knowing anything about you)
A truly wise Person shall not look out for 'wise people' rather he looks for the 'wisdom in people'.
-The "New year " is not as new as it sounds
-No number of well wishes for "happy new year/birthday" are sufficient in generating or contributing to the cumulative amount of happiness in the forth coming year.
Assuming you are a believer of love and the presence of a soul mate , mathematicians can easily prove that the possibility of meeting the one shall keep increasing as the time progresses and shall add up to approximately one just seconds before you die.
(assuming that she is still alive then)
If one spends time long enough pretending to be like someone or something he shall eventually transform onto it inevitably, the change starts by choice and ends by chance.
Technically we always live on an island it just depends on the distance we are from the sea.
If God really wanted to rule he should have created more of the dumber people, but he did not. Its kind of like hiring Schumacher as your cab driver, you can instruct it a million times in his biblical manual but his patience shall snap some day .
At any given time one can talk about a 'person' , an 'incident' or an 'idea'. Arranged in increasing order of reverence and decreasing order if incidence.
The perfection created by more than a million years of evolution can not be destroyed by anything other than the thing itself.
Men want only one thing from women; because they have everything else.
If you are going for the gold you have be ready to spend some extra time away from the sun in the lesser humane conditions while mining for it.
Getting something done with some one's help , provides Happiness :
Doing a stuff the hard way and/or without assistance , provides Satisfaction. Ironically we can only indulge into the either at a time and also we are supposed to make the choice well in advance.
If you receive a 100 responses against your theory , it means that you are right . And if there are a 100 reasons for something, it means that they all are wrong .
If you cannot get an Aston-martin, ride a bike.
The current social scale of a person's fame is calculated to be proportional to the number of people's life you can disrupt after your 'death' and before 'last rights'.
(counting only the people who have no interest in knowing anything about you)
A truly wise Person shall not look out for 'wise people' rather he looks for the 'wisdom in people'.
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