I always believed that if you are being" deprived of something that you have been longing for " one tends to develop extreme feeling about it many a times goes through the following stages..
DENIAL-
A pretentious stage of not loosing much and a sort of satisfaction with the things in hand and leads to preoccupation with the familiar and accessible rather than the 'one in the bush'.
CURIOSITY-
It tends to creep in every other time in the denial and probably the fight continues for long till the things loose the entropy and choose to settle in one side more often than the other, i would predict that the equilibrium kind of a state is reached that is still susceptible to fate and time.
I think the biggest curiosity is the one of happiness, at least initially. It is mainly provided by social reinforcement and the counter current is a loop that does persist in only in the aspects where the curiosities are answered.
IMPROVISATION-
This develops to a stage of strengthening the DENIAL aspect of the personality and curbs the curiosity, i think it is some time during this that people develop habits and hobbies and passions. These things are hard to develop if the person is more focused on reward .
Acceptance-
The person can end up most of the times with complete lack of commitment to urge for the hidden and apparently forbidden . The subject tends to loose all interest in it and ultimately becomes indifferent to the target , any yielding provided thus forth on the deprivation part shall no way incite a possible level of enthusiasm as it could have been.
This pathogenesis is followed by almost all human urges including the one for money , hence the old statement of "people who do not respect money are the ones who do not have any" can be true in a indirect sense.
No comments:
Post a Comment