The happiness perceived on receiving a gift is partly the intention but mainly its the fact that the recipient most of the times knows that he is receiving something and the timing, the secrecy and misty of the process make it a pleasurable experience.
The gifting process is supposed to be beneficial to the Doner too as he too feels pleasure in anticipation of the expression and response received by the recipient. The analogy expressed to a 'Grafting' process here is very intentional.
Often i wonder the rationale for gifting stuff to people , the whole concept is elementally retarded, i believe. Main argument that i have against the trend is pretty obvious but people seem to over look and 'Do as the romans do' . like most of the actions of a person it is designed to provide happiness to either sides .The Gift = graft is supposed to have a purpose and ultimately provide happiness to the Recipient but like in medicine it should be done only when the recipient needs it .
Wishing good for and giving gifts to a person shall truly fulfill the purpose when and if it was done when the person is truly in need of external source of happiness , which shall include many occasions but the birthday , new-year or graduation.
Making a happy person even more happy is probably not anyones direct intention. [assumption being that there is nothing called more happy, mood can exist in either of the two phases and like all qualitative condition is not to scale] An organ failure is Prerequisite for a grafting procedure ,we do not intend to create a superman by shubbing in a few extra kidneys , heart or a brain for that matter (if possible someday).
On the contrary there are only a very few conditions in medicine showing analogy to the doner's prospective on the entire process and that would be in cases of polycythemia or hemochromatosis when blood donation is guided by needs and benefit to the doner too.
How about giving a gift to a person when he fails an exam or screws up in a life i think that is the best situation when it we can truly validate the intention, because after all it is always all about the intent and not the consequence.Think on it.....
Things have changed
The pleasure in being dirty besides being passive action lies in being the only one.
I always believed that i was a good person before i met myself spirited ,Since then i know.
If we do not find GOD to help us we shall always have probability to replace him.
There is no use of knowing about a thing that does not help us to make a change.
Meditation is the best medication
The best way to keep winning in life , is by 'abstaining' from competing and comparing every-other time.
At any time in life a person is either Learning , Relaxing or Wasting his time.
Most of the people in this planet shall never see , read or do any thing that hasn't already been Observed , written or tried-at by someone else .
Happiness comes from getting things you never deserved (a crude way of saying lucky) on the contrary Satisfaction comes from accomplishing things that you fought for . I think life is more about deserving than accomplishing .
Doesn't matter whose pain it is; happiness is perceived in its removal . So apparently pain is a prerequisite for happiness and pleasure, Probably that's why Scorpion's say 'no pain no gain'.
If you manage to keep your mouth shut; mind , eye and ears open long enough, you shall have all the answers, even for the ones which you never asked.
A man first spends his health and time, to earn money further in life Spends all of it to buy time and health . [i could have easily replaced health with love]
When the gravity calls the answer is simple , natural , predictable & undeniable.
If I was ever happy I can be the happy again as long as I choose to remain the one I always was .
The love for someone/something is just the Absence of ' infantile stranger anxiety ' that every one retains and regresses into when he is stressed. This is the reason why people try to familiarize themselves with their environment at any/every given time. Renunciation is last stage of human maturation when he lacks any kind of regression in response to stress.
The best prediction about the way a routine incident shall take place would be just a reiteration of the way it happened the other day.
Sometimes people think, few of the times they know but most of the times people feel and predict on the basis of what they think they know.
I always believed that i was a good person before i met myself spirited ,Since then i know.
If we do not find GOD to help us we shall always have probability to replace him.
There is no use of knowing about a thing that does not help us to make a change.
Meditation is the best medication
The best way to keep winning in life , is by 'abstaining' from competing and comparing every-other time.
At any time in life a person is either Learning , Relaxing or Wasting his time.
Most of the people in this planet shall never see , read or do any thing that hasn't already been Observed , written or tried-at by someone else .
Happiness comes from getting things you never deserved (a crude way of saying lucky) on the contrary Satisfaction comes from accomplishing things that you fought for . I think life is more about deserving than accomplishing .
Doesn't matter whose pain it is; happiness is perceived in its removal . So apparently pain is a prerequisite for happiness and pleasure, Probably that's why Scorpion's say 'no pain no gain'.
If you manage to keep your mouth shut; mind , eye and ears open long enough, you shall have all the answers, even for the ones which you never asked.
A man first spends his health and time, to earn money further in life Spends all of it to buy time and health . [i could have easily replaced health with love]
When the gravity calls the answer is simple , natural , predictable & undeniable.
If I was ever happy I can be the happy again as long as I choose to remain the one I always was .
The love for someone/something is just the Absence of ' infantile stranger anxiety ' that every one retains and regresses into when he is stressed. This is the reason why people try to familiarize themselves with their environment at any/every given time. Renunciation is last stage of human maturation when he lacks any kind of regression in response to stress.
The best prediction about the way a routine incident shall take place would be just a reiteration of the way it happened the other day.
Sometimes people think, few of the times they know but most of the times people feel and predict on the basis of what they think they know.
I can feel it ....calling In the air tonight
Alcohol is believed to be a depressant that decreases mental activity and in the process produces euphoria in between the large spectrum of actions; But i , my brother and probably some other religious drinkers share the following opinion.
A normal sober person is at any time fully conscious of his environment and space in which his body lies , the perception and responce to these are a continuous process and always tend to keep a person compitent and effectively effective.
Alcohol has an ability to cause blunting of these perceptions first and hence temporarily causing an increasingly loosened feeling and the person starts concentrating on things that he has been over looking all this time and starts enjoying a thing as silly as just watching the world from the window. It is one of the reasons why people enjoy music much more when they are drunk . This has a very special effect on human psychology that can be compared in homology to effect of Chemotherapy on malignancies such that the fastest dividing cells are affected first and rest last. A Cigarette can provide a similar effect in a shorter span of time and also shorter lasting .
I think the possible reason of increasing consumption of both is because people are being forced to live in a not self satisfying manner....the people have to pretend somebody all day , smoke every 2 hrs to keep doing it good and drink in the evenings to spend sometime with anyone other than the one they fake to be all day...........
A normal sober person is at any time fully conscious of his environment and space in which his body lies , the perception and responce to these are a continuous process and always tend to keep a person compitent and effectively effective.
Alcohol has an ability to cause blunting of these perceptions first and hence temporarily causing an increasingly loosened feeling and the person starts concentrating on things that he has been over looking all this time and starts enjoying a thing as silly as just watching the world from the window. It is one of the reasons why people enjoy music much more when they are drunk . This has a very special effect on human psychology that can be compared in homology to effect of Chemotherapy on malignancies such that the fastest dividing cells are affected first and rest last. A Cigarette can provide a similar effect in a shorter span of time and also shorter lasting .
I think the possible reason of increasing consumption of both is because people are being forced to live in a not self satisfying manner....the people have to pretend somebody all day , smoke every 2 hrs to keep doing it good and drink in the evenings to spend sometime with anyone other than the one they fake to be all day...........
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