Feeling Good

The happiness perceived on receiving a gift is partly the intention but mainly its the fact that the recipient most of the times knows that he is receiving something and the timing, the secrecy and misty of the process make it a pleasurable experience.
The gifting process is supposed to be beneficial to the Doner too as he too feels pleasure in anticipation of the expression and response received by the recipient. The analogy expressed to a 'Grafting' process here is very intentional.
Often i wonder the rationale for gifting stuff to people , the whole concept is elementally retarded, i believe. Main argument that i have against the trend is pretty obvious but people seem to over look and 'Do as the romans do' . like most of the actions of a person it is designed to provide happiness to either sides .The Gift = graft is supposed to have a purpose and ultimately provide happiness to the Recipient but like in medicine it should be done only when the recipient needs it .
Wishing good for and giving gifts to a person shall truly fulfill the purpose when and if it was done when the person is truly in need of external source of happiness , which shall include many occasions but the birthday , new-year or graduation.
Making a happy person even more happy is probably not anyones direct intention. [assumption being that there is nothing called more happy, mood can exist in either of the two phases and like all qualitative condition is not to scale] An organ failure is Prerequisite for a grafting procedure ,we do not intend to create a superman by shubbing in a few extra kidneys , heart or a brain for that matter (if possible someday).
On the contrary there are only a very few conditions in medicine showing analogy to the doner's prospective on the entire process and that would be in cases of polycythemia or hemochromatosis when blood donation is guided by needs and benefit to the doner too.
How about giving a gift to a person when he fails an exam or screws up in a life i think that is the best situation when it we can truly validate the intention, because after all it is always all about the intent and not the consequence.Think on it.....