One of the primary concerns in a person's life is to find out the Primary concern itself.
Everything else and figuratively speaking 99.999% of stuff that you talk about or do is directed to hide from the above question. The primary reason for such entropy in personal choices is due to a higher regard to other's opinion rather than ourselves.
I believe that the main reason why people tend to rely on a fellow mortals opinion is because people like to have any thing other than oneself to blame incase something goes wrong. Kind of a playing safe attitude. One key reason why a person repeatedly fails to reach a reasonably working idea is because they have an urge to fight the problem but not with intentions to reach a concrete conclusion.
People believe that showing resentment is good enough. But we all know that no one care's what you think about a 'situation' people only care what you think about them; I would really like to see a person making friends based on a person's ideas rather than their affinity to self. The idea is to be "friends to a person who has no interest in you". A situation that is visible in organisation of Religion, politics or the lesser controversial ' Celebrity Fan Clubs'. The respect and Love in these situations is unidirectional in nature.
I would regard that as one of the pathognomic sign of a non-pragmatic thinking and deriving a conclusion for an action rather than an option for conversation. The act of complimenting the society should supervine rather simulate substance(people included).
The end outcome is dependent on the way the support system is considered liable to blame if and when the harnesses fail.
Come Undone
I have for long held a thought that lingers around the concept of familiarity and people's urge to live in a familiar environment. The idea keeps people in a cocoon of safety while the person enjoys the freedom from the window of the imaginary closet
Even though everyone likes freedom he/she always likes to be under some control that provides a reassurance of safety and incites confidence to freely and fearlessly observe the rest of the world.
Thus a calculated amount of freedom is sacrificed to gain freedom to relish the space leftover. An optimistic human mind is smart enough to appreciate the better end of the deal. Its not actually about the better deal rather its about the more acceptable preposition. The above proposal is framed in purely business fashion and hence works better in business minded people where the person's ability to subconsciously organise choices in an order of priority is better set at default.
The other end of the spectrum is the person who abstains from such pragmatism in day to day decision making. Though beyond doubt the person with former thought process makes a better civilised human than the latter the former is lesser likely to acquire a moral compliment.
Even though everyone likes freedom he/she always likes to be under some control that provides a reassurance of safety and incites confidence to freely and fearlessly observe the rest of the world.
Thus a calculated amount of freedom is sacrificed to gain freedom to relish the space leftover. An optimistic human mind is smart enough to appreciate the better end of the deal. Its not actually about the better deal rather its about the more acceptable preposition. The above proposal is framed in purely business fashion and hence works better in business minded people where the person's ability to subconsciously organise choices in an order of priority is better set at default.
The other end of the spectrum is the person who abstains from such pragmatism in day to day decision making. Though beyond doubt the person with former thought process makes a better civilised human than the latter the former is lesser likely to acquire a moral compliment.
Take away my pain
What all doesn't kill you keeps making you stronger, untill it eventually does. Thats just after you reach the maximum strength that you were destined to achieve.
The Idea of strength physical and mental is often interpreted reciprocally in either formats. People should have a better way to look into the two aspects of strength.
Any real trouble shall always leave a scar and unless very special measures are taken the site shall be weaker than rest. So even though the host is better prepaerd for similar situation in future, the so called strength gained is in 'couping and avoiding from the harm' and not in lessening the actual damage.
Considering the idea of mental/moral strength accumulated over periods of such physical and emotional trauma, the idea almost always learnt is in the better uses of previously unappreciated defence mechanisms. No real physical or moral strength is gained but the mind only develops better and more applicable defence mechanisms.
The main thought i wish to convey here is that the "experienced life" is mainly a body full of scars and scabs with a mind full of trial tested ways to better ignore the pain. Troubles don't make any thing better they only help remove the unnecessary and lesser essentials.
The Idea of strength physical and mental is often interpreted reciprocally in either formats. People should have a better way to look into the two aspects of strength.
Any real trouble shall always leave a scar and unless very special measures are taken the site shall be weaker than rest. So even though the host is better prepaerd for similar situation in future, the so called strength gained is in 'couping and avoiding from the harm' and not in lessening the actual damage.
Considering the idea of mental/moral strength accumulated over periods of such physical and emotional trauma, the idea almost always learnt is in the better uses of previously unappreciated defence mechanisms. No real physical or moral strength is gained but the mind only develops better and more applicable defence mechanisms.
The main thought i wish to convey here is that the "experienced life" is mainly a body full of scars and scabs with a mind full of trial tested ways to better ignore the pain. Troubles don't make any thing better they only help remove the unnecessary and lesser essentials.
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